Thursday, February 18, 2010

Which end is the road heading now

Shine in the sun, but dim in the dark
I never understood that part
Do what you need to get there
Do nothing to stay there
portray to be what you wish
and truly disappoint those you have fooled
Let only god mold your ways
Because tomorrow is never promised today!

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

What Men & Women should know about Valentines Day

1) It’s never okay to assume you’re someone’s valentine. How about asking? Me personally I think since it’s usually up to the man whether you guys are in a committed relationship or not, going to get married or not. So why not let him do the honors.

2) Valentines Day is a joined appreciation day. It is a day for BOTH men and women to share appreciation and love for one another. So ladies step your game up, we want him to appreciate us and give us things; we need to do the same. It’s a couples day

3) Valentines Day is something that can’t be made up. Sure, u can miss someone’s birthday and send a belated b-day card or call with apologies. But Valentines Day is like an anniversary. It’s a specific day where you let that “One & only special someone” know, this is their day, and u have only them on your mind” If he/she misses this day, more then likely YOUR NOT that “One & only special someone” Sorry, to say but its very true. You should know where to go from there.

4) Cheesy is perfect for Valentines Day. This is a day where cheesy and thoughtful gifts over power quality & quantity. A few examples. Try a handmade card with flowers and a small box of candies. The more thought you put into the day, gets a better point across.

5) Relax. Showing someone that are important to you or expressing your feelings shouldn’t be like Finals. It should come natural and feel natural.

6) Its Okay to enjoy Valentines Day even if your single. For years, I have been single, and it seems no matter how close I get to Valentines Day I never make it, to have that day I have dreamed of. But after awhile of always giving or going all the way out for someone who I thought was special, it always turned out upside down. So if your single, this is a day for you as well, you are surrounded by family and friends who love you. Enjoy this day with them

7) Valentines Day is a day of Love. Don’t ruin it by being salty towards people who are enjoying it. Jealousy is a disease and we have to work on our self infections to start working towards a cure.

8) Become Fearless. Valentines Day is the perfect day to say I love you. If you have felt that you loved someone and really didn’t know how to say it or how the other person would feel about it or you after you have said it. Valentines Day is a perfect excuse. Hell everyone is going to be throwing around “I LOVE YOU” why not you too, take some pressure off by throwing in a playful card that says it. Followed by some verbal bravery.